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Definition: Boomeritis is pluralism infected with narcissism.


Summary:
Diagnosis: Boomeritis is an expression invented by Ken Wilber to describe the postmodern cultural condition whereby highly developed cognitive pluralism becomes infected with poorly developed emotional narcissism.

Symptoms: rampant deconstructive tendencies; fits of nihilism and romanticism; self-serving victimhood; aperspectival madness; idiot compassion and reckless egalitarianism; frequent outbreaks of hypocrisy and performative contradiction; earth-shaking delusions of grandeur.

Prognosis: Boomeritis is a parasite which feeds off of the fruits of postmodernity. Those inflicted often lose themselves in a solipsistic playground of self-indulgence where, under the banner of pluralism, they place themselves at the center of the universe, only to awaken one day in a barren wasteland of self-deception and spiritual impotence.




What is Boomeritis?
First of all, it isn't just something for those of us born during the boomer years, 1946-1964. According to Ken Wilber, «Boomeritis is simply pluralism infected with narcissism.»

The ‹high› part
Sounds relatively harmless. Pluralism, simply defined, is our current social reality, where diverse racial, ethnic, and religious groups mix within one culture. However, Wilber is referring to something more specific — the intellectual capacity that emerges from that social reality: the ability to appreciate differences, to understand the ways that diverse cultures construct reality, and to fashion an identity, or self, that goes beyond one's family and culture of origin.

Boomers do happen to have a particular and, of course, unique historical role in this development. As he writes, «The Boomers, to their great credit, were the first major generation in history to develop [this capacity]. That's a very important point....The Boomers moved beyond the [previous cultural stages of] traditionalism and ... scientific modernism ... and pioneered a postmodern, pluralistic, multicultural understanding.... And that is exactly why the Boomers spearheaded civil rights, ecological concerns, feminism, and multicultural diversity.

That is the ‹high› part of the mixture, the truly impressive part of the Boomer generation and the explosive revolutions of the sixties ...» These revolutions, as partial as they have been, changed forever our sense of human possibility and refashioned the contours of human identity.

The ‹low› part?
And the ‹low› part? The narcissism, naturally. Wilber is certainly not the only one who has noticed — how could one not?! — that the boomer generation, which unself-consciously and even proudly wears the appellation ‹the Me generation›, is more than a bit stuck on itself — and has left something sticky on the generations that have followed.

Christopher Lasch's The Culture of Narcissism and Robert Bellah and colleagues' Habits of the Heart have beautifully and poignantly documented how self-involved and isolated we are.

Concerned critics have despaired at how this inflated self-involvement has ripped the social fabric and, grasping to bring order to the chaos created by this unparalleled selfishness, they have often, futilely, called for a return to traditional values. Yet these problems can never be solved by looking backward. The world is changing at warp speed. There is no way back nor is there a ‹back› to go to.

Wilber does what no other critic of the cultural scene has done: he not only elaborates in agonizing detail the corrosive effects of «that strange mixture of very high cognitive capacity... infected with rather low emotional narcissism», but he places it within an evolutionary context and, in so doing, points to a possibility for humanity beyond boomeritis. The solution to boomer narcissism cannot come from looking to the past but only in realizing the demand of the future.

Wilber confronts us with how critical the present moment actually is — because beyond the social fragmentation aggravated by boomer self-absorption is the potential for a more holistic, integral future.

The maturity of a "grown up" is nothing fuzzy, foggy but is clearly expressed and can therefore be observed, measured, taught, learned and valued!

A mature adult human being…

… recognizes the correct stage of his/her maturity as an adult.
… aims to get more mature as an adult human being at any time.
… knows the difference between urgend and important.
… knows the difference between doing the right thing and
    doing a thing right.
… learned to admit mistakes and to apologize for them if appropriate.
… learned to listen actively to others.
… seeks to understand before trying to be understood.
… is trueful to himself/herself and to others
    (stops lying to himself/herself as well as to others.)
… takes the full responsibility for his/her life.
… can express his/her needs to fellow humans.
… aims for its own and fellow humans mental health
    (e.g. stops playing psycho-games).
… aims for its own and fellow humans bodily health.
… can forgive himself/herself as well as others.
… frees himself/herself from any kind of
    material or mind prison as far as possible.
… knows to put himself/herself in others peoples skin or situation.
… learned that meaning depends on context and knows therefore
    that there exist many truths (contexts are endless).
… knows that healing/building is from a memetic point of view far
    more complex than hurting/destroying and therefore much
    higher in hierarchy.
… knows the difference between magic, mythic and mystic.
… understands that life happens here and now.
… meets every human being on the same level like him-/herself
    without lowering nor aggrandizing him-/herself nor the other.
… learned to control his/her central nervous system (non-vegetative
    nervous system, vegetative nervous system, brain etc.).
… learned to control the RQ world with the LQ world and vice versa.
… accepts its own death (complete end of body and ego) entirely as
    lifes conclusion (without gloryfing it!) while saying yes to life
    at the same time (Zen: Buji).
… can answer all questions of the master correctly without hesitation.